Part of our life is made up of the people that we call friends and also those we call our love.
A lover should ideally be a friend before the commence of romance.
In some cases, a lover could no longer be a friend when the romance turned sour.
A friend could still be a friend if they make the effort to keep the camaraderie.
You could have as many friends as you like but essentially, a lover is more than enough.
Someone once told me this:
Sharing thoughts and feelings is sometimes greater in friendship than in marriage, although commitments is less strong, as friends come and go over the life course.
There are times when we couldn't share with our love but it is easier to do so with a friend.
We are comfortable to reveal before a friend, not our lover. Tough, huh?
There is an official way to end a relationship for legalised lovers-divorce or judicial separation.
In friendship, there is no legal declaration to be made when it is over.
It is easier, it seems to mantain a friendship than a 'loveship'.
All in all, human relationships no matter which category they are, is fragile.
It is often easier to tear things apart than to build them.
May we cherish and treasure the relationships we build and doing our best not to ruin it.
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